The husband should be a leader. The wife should be a leader. The husband leads the wife in areas she is weak and needs guidance. The wife leads the husband where he is weak and needs guidance.
But enough of trying to fit genders into prescriptive boxes. If the dynamics of a relationship aren’t based on the gifts of the individuals involved, then it isn’t grace-driven and honoring each spouse as created, but legalistic and denying God’s good creation.
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